Some Thoughts About Complaints, Change and Responsibility

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The very fact that you are a complainer, shows that you deserve your lot. 

~James Allen

Complaining about anything holds you in the place of refusing to receive the things you've been asking for.

Justifying about anything holds you in the place of refusing to let in the very things that you've been asking for.

Blaming someone holds you in the place of refusing to let in the things that you've been asking for. Feeling guilty, feeling angry, it doesn't matter what you call it; it is a refusal, not a conscious one.

You're asking; you can't help but ask. The Universe is yielding; it must yield. It's a big question, folks: why aren't you letting it in? ~Abraham-Hicks

A man’s reach should exceed his grasp or what’s a heaven for? ~Robert Browning

Stop bitching about your job. The fact is you have one and many out there like myself do not. That job is putting food on your table and paying your bills. You were hired because you were deemed competent so it is high time you started looking and thinking of your job differently. Focus on what you enjoy doing and accept the rest that goes along with it. If however, you don't want to do anything but complain about it then leave it and give the opportunity to someone else who really needs it!

Choose a job you love and you will never have to work 

a day in your life.  ~Confucius

We are each responsible for what happens in our lives – never doubt that for one second. Not one person despite what we may believe is responsible for us, our happiness, unhappiness or dissatisfaction with our lot in life. If anything is to change we are the ones to do so and it must begin by changing the way we think.

Napoleon Hill said thoughts are things and we prove this every day. The more we focus on what is not working for us the more tangible and larger the problems become until they take on a life of their own until we end up flailing about in our own mess.

Accept that you are at fault, the creator of your present situation regardless of events and who else is involved. Not a single soul on this planet can make you do anything or feel any emotion that you do not want to. That is a fact people!

To begin to think with purpose is to enter the ranks of those strong ones who only recognize failure as one of the pathways to attainment. ~James Allen

                                Feijoa by Tatters:) When you decide to change your life you change the way you think.

When you decide that you want something more, something better, you set the train in motion to better your life and the Universe starts working with you.

The energy you exude will influence others in a positive way and it is from there your unexpected support will emanate. Some call it synchronicity or coincidence.

This does not mean that it will be easy or simple but there will be a natural flow which will buoy you along over the bumps, barriers and other challenges.

Your negative thought patterns are still there however just waiting for a charge to take over and weigh you down and it sometimes may.

The thing always happens that you really believe in; and the belief

in a thing makes it happen. ~Frank Lloyd Wright

However, the more you focus on your decision to power forward and better yourself the more insignificant your negative thoughts will become.

It will also be incumbent upon you to change your environment; that is a natural outcome because you become the environment in which you live. As you move forward you will lose "friends" and part ways with some family members. You will be creating a brand new world and its effect on others will surprise you.

Change is a painful process but perseverance wins the game every single time. As Napoleon Hill said you are only three feet from gold if you but knew it and persevered! This will become clearer when you stop complaining and criticising. Think of what you want in your life, focus only on that and forget the rest.

As Jack Canfield says in his Success Principles it is time to release the brakes you unwittingly put on your life.

Fertilise the garden of your mind with fertile seeds of thought and nourish them unceasingly with faith in your abilities, a positive mindset, calm thoughts supported by meditation, and unfailing perseverance in the face of seemingly insurmountable odds.

What is a well-lived life? To become your own best friend by making peace with yourself. Then there is one less person suffering. A great gift to the world. ~Ed and Deb Shapiro