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20 Oct 2010

The Blame Game - Take 100 Percent Responsibility

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WE love the blame game. We love to criticise others for our hurts and pains, their lack of giving and caring, their lack of responsibility because we are so precious and sensitive, aren't we; more than anyone else in fact!

Grousing is a popular past-time which has passed its use-by date. It is high time to do away with our favourite catch phrase "after all I did for you..." as well.
RARELY do we take 100 percent responsibility for our present situations, our actions and lack of action.

When you blame someone else for anything that is going wrong or that has gone wrong in your life that you're lying. I expand more 

What happened to you, what you did or did not do or who was involved and their part in the story is irrelevant!
EVERYTHING is a choice and you chose to re-act (acting again and again in the same old way) as you did thereby creating a situation that you did not want! That is the law of attraction at work because you do get what you vibrate.
You believe it is your right to expect others to "do for you" because you are sick and helpless and all the self-pity that goes along with such selfish expectations. 

How come you do not understand that when something is not done out of love it might as well not be done at all. There is no benefit to either party in such a guilt-trip.
STOP playing the waiting game! You are always waiting...for someone to come, for someone to think for you, for someone to act, for someone to fix the problem but there is no one else.
It is up to you and me to get off our arses and be Mr and Mrs Fix-It. Apply the take 100 percent responsibility and principle to your life and banish the problems you created.

When you end up between a rock and a hard place there is always, always a choice and you must choose.

It may not be the most amenable of choices however, as I have learned, it is exactly the experience you need to take you up a notch on the emotional evolutionary ladder. 

James Hillman is riveting about the soul's journey which is what you are living.
WHEN you take 100 percent responsibility for every thing that happens in your life, this simple act changes the way you see the world. 

And even more importantly, it changes the way the world sees you!

You walk to a different beat from there on out. Start living authentically: embrace your truth and live it with gusto.
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