Giving: Are You Allowing Others To Fill Their Cup From Your Stream?

Giving by Khalil Gibran strikes a chord with me based on recent experiences and I intend to expand further on this topic in a separate post.  But I ask you now, do you allow others to fill their cup from your stream?

I have noticed that people put so much emphasis on giving particularly in these days of man-made difficulties. 

Yet, I get the feeling that individuals feel that they must. That's nonsense of course; it just ain't so! If you do not want to not even of yourself, it's alright; it's not a crime for heaven's sake! 

When you do give, do it from the heart and without forethought. Because giving in any other way cheapens you, negates the spiritual energy from the gift and diminishes the receiver's joy (unbeknowst to you, of course). Living a lie in any form is a waste of time and energy.

Now, check out my man of the moment, Khalil Gibran's Giving and sup on the message.

Giving

Then said a rich man, "Speak to us of Giving" and he answered:

You give but little when you give of your possessions.

It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.  For what are your possessions but things you keep and guard for fear you may need them tomorrow?

And tomorrow, what shall tomorrow bring to the over-prudent dog burying bones in the trackless sand as he follows the pilgrims to the holy city?

And what is fear of need but need itself?  Is not dread of thirst when your well is full, thirst that is unquenchable?

There are those who give little of the much which they have - and they give it for recognition and their hidden desire makes their gifts unwholesome.

And there are those who have little and give it all.  These are the believers in life and the bounty of life, and their coffer is never empty.

There are those who give with joy, and that joy is their reward.  And there are those who give with pain, and that pain is their baptism.

And there are those who give and know not pain in giving, nor do they seek joy, nor give with mindfulness of virtue;

They give as in yonder valley the myrtle breathes its fragrance into space.  Though the hands of such as these God speaks, and from behind their eyes He smiles upon the earth.

It is well to give when asked but it is better to give unasked, through understanding;

And to the open-handed the search for one who shall receive is joy greater than giving.

And is there aught you would withhold?  All you have shall some day be given;

Therefore give now, that the season of giving may be yours and not your inheritors'.

You often say, "I would give, but only to the deserving." 

The trees in your orchard say not so nor the flocks in your pasture.

They give that they may live; for to withhold is to perish.  Surely he who is worthy to receive his days and his nights is worthy of all else from you.

And he who has deserved to drink from the ocean of life deserves to fill his cup from your little stream.

And what dessert greater shall there be than that which lies in the courage and the confidence, nay the charity, of receiving?

And who are you that men should rend their bosom and unveil their pride, that you may see their worth naked and their pride unabashed?

See first that you yourself deserve to be a giver, and an instrument of giving.  For in truth it is life that gives unto life – while you, who deem yourself a giver, are but a witness.

And you receivers - and you are all receivers - assume no weight of gratitude, lest you lay a yoke upon yourself and upon him who gives.

Rather rise together with the giver on his gifts as on wings; for to be over-mindful of your debt is to doubt his generosity who has the free-hearted earth for mother, and God for father.